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Matthew Sexton, LCSW

Matthew Sexton, LCSW, NATC — Telehealth: New York · Maine · Delaware · Florida

High-functioning anxiety therapy — for the one nobody worries about.

High-functioning anxiety hides behind competence. The output is impressive. The nervous system is running a threat response around the clock. Matthew Sexton, LCSW provides depth-oriented telehealth therapy for adults with high-functioning anxiety in New York, Maine, Delaware, and Florida — for the anxiety that looks like ambition.

What is high-functioning anxiety?
High-functioning anxiety is not a DSM diagnosis — it describes a presentation in which anxiety drives high performance while causing significant internal distress. It looks like perfectionism, over-preparation, difficulty delegating, and constant scanning for what could go wrong. From the outside: competent. From the inside: exhausting.
How is high-functioning anxiety different from generalized anxiety disorder?
GAD produces visible impairment. High-functioning anxiety produces invisible impairment — the person appears to be thriving while their internal experience is dominated by chronic threat-scanning and catastrophic preparation. The clinical work targets the internal architecture, not just the presenting symptoms.
What does therapy for high-functioning anxiety look like?
We work on the difference between the performance and the internal state: what is actually driving the over-preparation, what the threat-scanning is protecting against, and what a nervous system not organized around anticipating failure would actually feel like. Modalities include IFS parts work and polyvagal-informed somatic regulation.

High-functioning anxiety therapy — for the one nobody worries about.

High-functioning anxiety hides behind competence. Your output is impressive. Your nervous system is running a threat response around the clock. The anxiety does not look like anxiety — it looks like perfectionism, over-preparation, an inability to delegate, and exhaustion from maintaining a performance nobody asked for. It is diagnosable, it is treatable, and it responds well to targeted clinical work.

Matthew Sexton, LCSW, NATC is a licensed clinical social worker in New York, Maine, and Delaware, registered with Florida as an out-of-state telehealth provider, and a credentialed Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician. He has spent fourteen years in clinical practice and healthcare systems, and writes for the people who hold everyone else together.

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The next step

You don't have to explain everything to start.

A free call is where we find out if this is the right fit — and if I'm not the right person, I'll say so and point you somewhere better.

Start with a free 30-minute call

30 minutes · video or phone, your choice · no forms first · no fee, no commitment

Rather talk now? (917) 432-9580 — answered or returned within one business day.

Telehealth only · NY · ME · DE · FL · In-network through Alma, or $225 out-of-network with superbills.

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