Matthew Sexton, LCSW, NATC — Telehealth: New York · Maine · Delaware · Florida
High-functioning anxiety hides behind competence. The output is impressive. The nervous system is running a threat response around the clock. Matthew Sexton, LCSW provides depth-oriented telehealth therapy for adults with high-functioning anxiety in New York, Maine, Delaware, and Florida — for the anxiety that looks like ambition.
High-functioning anxiety hides behind competence. Your output is impressive. Your nervous system is running a threat response around the clock. The anxiety does not look like anxiety — it looks like perfectionism, over-preparation, an inability to delegate, and exhaustion from maintaining a performance nobody asked for. It is diagnosable, it is treatable, and it responds well to targeted clinical work.
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A pattern in which anxiety drives high performance rather than impairing it — mapping clinically to Generalized Anxiety Disorder (DSM-5-TR 300.02) but missed in approximately 40% of high-achiever presentations because the output looks fine. The anxiety is not absent; it is load-bearing. The coping strategies (over-preparation, perfectionism, hyper-vigilance) are themselves the anxiety.
Treatment addresses the core mechanisms: chronic hypervigilance, the productivity-as-worth schema, sleep architecture disruption, and the specific cognitive patterns that keep the threat-detection system running after the threat is gone. Polyvagal-informed pacing, schema work, and CBT-I for sleep are common components.
Because people with high-functioning anxiety look successful. They do not present as impaired — they present as driven, organized, and capable. Primary care misses it in roughly 40% of presentations. The presenting complaint is often fatigue, insomnia, or "I just can't turn my brain off" rather than anxiety per se.
The next step
A free call is where we find out if this is the right fit — and if I'm not the right person, I'll say so and point you somewhere better.
Start with a free 30-minute call
30 minutes · video or phone, your choice · no forms first · no fee, no commitment
Rather talk now? (917) 432-9580 — answered or returned within one business day.
Telehealth only · NY · ME · DE · FL · In-network through Alma, or $225 out-of-network with superbills.
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